Let Go

Often when you aren’t achieving the things you want, is because part of you doesn’t want to let go of where you have been.

I see this often, when people tell me they are ready to make a change in their lives and want more, But continue to tell me the same story from their past. The story that describes to not only others but themselves as well the life they are willing to live.

When you get stuck in a story that describes how you got ill, fired, ingured, abused, insulted, angered, disrespected, abandoned, forgotten the list is endless, etc…., you get stuck reliving the experience physically and emotionally. It may have happened long ago, and it’s not true today, but it’s still true in your mind.

I see clients often tell old stories not realizing the affects it’s having on their current lifestyle. It holds them in the past. Similar to being in a cage with invisible bars. You can leave anytime, but your story is living in the cage, so you feel stuck.

The way to let go of the past is to forgive others and yourself. Even if it’s just in a silent prayer to them. It doesn’t excuse the poor behaviors of others, it just frees you from the cage.

Then sit down and write a new story. Decide what you want and make small steps to get it every day. You will see it manifest in your life when you begin living your new story.

Brightest Blessings,
Daune