Do You Sidestep or Redirect?

When life begins to apply pressure do you sidestep it or accept its wisdom for growth.  It seems many I have been working with as well as friends and family have been feeling this circling energy that is asking many of us to decide.  Decide if what you’re doing is working and productive, and if not are you up for growth and redirection.

I was at an appointment recently and the technician said I’m not really feeling any of the energy sifts happening.  But when I asked him if he had recently made a choice to let something from his past go, he said YES.   He decided to let go of the relationship he always imagined he wanted to have with his mom and decided to be content with what it really is.  He was face to face with deciding to let her live her journey and not to judge or intervene.  Just let her be who she is and release his illusion of who he wanted her to be.  He said he finally felt free.

That seems to be the way of life for everyone these days, whether it’s letting go of a lifestyle, career, relationship, friend or thought process.  It’s as if we are waking up to the idea of actually manifesting what we do want instead of what we don’t.

Now this doesn’t come without temper tantrums.  We all do it because we are used to the old way of doing things.  We have become habitually trained to believe and live in a certain pattern.  No one enjoys endings, closure or change.  But just recently we are realizing in order to move forward, letting go of the old paradigms are not only necessary but unavoidable.

What I have found to make the process of transformation from old to new a little easier, be in gratitude.  See it as ALL perfect and right.  See every choice and experience you have made in the past GOOD, BAD, and UGLY as perfect for your growth up to this point in time.  Every old thought and experience was perfect in prepping you to make the shift to a new and improved paradigm that supports the life you dream of.  It is all a culmination of experiences and pressure to push you to a new life.

Look at any situation you are in that you are feeling as if you are almost mourning from letting it go, see it now as a gift.  Restate what it did for you in loving grateful words.  Reaffirm that it was what you needed until now.  It was the best relationship, career, friend, parent, accident, trauma or experience you could have had.   Until you figured out what you now want instead.  State… “Thank You for being there when I needed you”.  Then it becomes less judgmental, angry, sad, lonely, or fear based.  It becomes love for yourself and your evolution to becoming more unconditionally loving.

See the shifts in your life with unconditional love and allow yourself with gentleness to be redirected to the path you have been asking for.  A better path for your highest good.  To just be in the thoughts of your dreams and start walking there.  You’ll be grateful for the pressure that pushed you to a new scenery where you can surrender to what is infinitely possible.

Brightest Blessings,

Daune