Attached

Consider your attachment to things. Its a challenge to appreciate this moment, if you fear the loss of it in the future. 

How attached to your friends, possessions, money, relationships, thoughts, beliefs are you? Our lives have become very attached to things. The challenge with that is it creates a continuous state of fear. Fear that you may loose something stops you from appreciating it while you have it.

This is often the case I see with clients struggling in relationships. Each person gets so attached to how the others person should be, act, and display their love. Then when their partner strays from that disillusioned belief they get panicked, thus creating stress in the relationship.

This is an easy remedy, let your partner be who they are. Let go of the attachment of who you think they should be. The freedom in that creates an open and trusting environment to live and grow for both. This is not a shift in your partner, it’s a shift in you. When you can let go, you will see it for truth, not illusion. Now the truth may not be your truth and maybe you need to let go, but it’s honest and loving. Not disillusioned and controlling.

Attachment is one of the greatest forms of fear we have. It’s one of the easiest fears we can heal. Accept things as you have them now and if and when they need to be set free, set them free. All things destined to be in your path with return or be replaced with something greater.

Brightest Blessings,
Daune