When life begins to unravel, it’s really straightening out.

When things are falling apart, they are happening so your life can fall into place.  Its often the case when you aren’t living your purpose so the universe steps in to assist.  Now the tricky part is refraining from taking it personal.  It’s not to make you miserable, it’s a forced change so uncomfortable that you start making changes for improvement.  People rarely change until there is enough pain that lights a fire under them.

When you live on autopilot instead of intention you get sidetracked from your purpose and joy.  This happens when you are living unconsciously.  Not paying attention to what is truly important to you.  Not looking within and seeing the old unresolved gunk from your past that you stuffed down in a hidden compartment.  Not seeing the poor patterns you are repeating that no longer support your happiness.  Look at your weaknesses and ask yourself, what do I need to do to make myself stronger there.

They may have served their purpose at the time, but are no longer needed.  I’m not encouraging you to relive them, im saying look at them and decide if old behaviors or habits are desired and supporting you now.  Ask yourself why are you holding on and what is it doing for you to hold onto things that don’t work for you.  Does it bring you attention, nurturing or comfort.  Poor habits are most often displayed only for the outcome or feeling it gives us.  Even when its painful or disempowering.  Be honest with yourself about its purpose.  It’s like taking an experience and replaying a video tape of it in your mind and then finding similar experiences to bring you the same desired outcome.  It may be to receive attention even if the outcome isn’t what you want.  It may be to validate you are not worthy of more when it’s a repeat of a painful past.  Then when you get the same outcome from a different environment, you get to tell others see… I told you it wasn’t going to work out for the better.  Keeping you in a holding pattern you dislike.  Awareness of your weaknesses is the fastest way to get off the treadmill.

Are you are repeating old relationships, financial challenges, or poor health, etc…?  When they begin to unravel and fall apart, let them.  Its your cue…. stop overthinking why and start making intentional decisions that support the life you do desire.  They may be uncomfortable changes because you are so habitually use to doing the old that you might even fear how good it can actually be.  Do it anyway to break the self-sabotaging behavior.  Allow your grand intentions to unfold in front of you.  Don’t go back and grab onto the old rope tying you to the past.  Take one step at a time and just keep walking.  Each step into the unknown will bring you the success you dream of.  Not running on the old treadmill that had you stagnant and stuck.  When you decide what you really want, letting go of what you don’t want becomes easy.  Starting today, let all that is not supporting your dreams fall away.  Don’t be upset when it does, you are telling the universe you are ready.

Write a list of your greatest dreams and intentions and stick with that path.  Don’t ask how, just make your intention clear on what you truly desire.  Then trust yourself to make the journey.  You deserve it!

Brightest Blessings,

Daune