Trust And Action

Trust is when action equals words. Words without action are like a good song you can’t dance to.

How often do you hear the words you want to hear only to be left disappointed after finding the words were only an exaggerated story to placate you?

Then you call them out on the misrepresentation only to then create friction between you both. This is an endless cycle that can go on forever until you stop it.

Simply listen to others and let them express. Don’t depend on their words, until you see the action supporting their words. The action tells you where they are confident or not. Appreciate their actions and you will see it more often. You then can trust that action because it’s validating the words.

You don’t need to call others out negatively on their inaction, just understand this is not a confident place for them and let it go.

If it’s that important to you to be done, either teach them how or do it yourself. But continually reacting to their inactive words will get you nowhere and make you distrust them even more. No need to distrust, just know it’s not a space of confidence for them. Calling them out only enhances their lack of self-confidence and makes the relationship strained.

This is your cue to accept the area of weakness is another or to walk away from something unhealthy. Either way remember to trust the action not the words. It’s never about you it’s about them.

Brightest Blessings,
Daune