Just Let Go

Have you been asking yourself lately….”Is this the best decision for me?”  I feel like I’m being pulled in two directions.

Being blessed to work with many people at the same time, it gives me a bird’s eye view on what’s happening to so many of us at the same time.  It seems the grand picture looks like everyone is getting bombarded lately with their past, present and future all at the same time and being asked to choose.

Well that seems easy enough, let go of the past…right?  Not so easy when we are creatures of habit and we don’t like to let go.  We put in hard work and dedicated hours to make ourselves unintentionally skilled masters of old poor behaviors, relationships, partnerships and lifestyles.  Not all of our behaviors are poor, but it seems that’s the big topic on the chopping block these days… “So many things from my past are appearing, what should I do?”

Just Let Go.  Don’t forget, but let go of your need to be attached to it emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally.  It was an experience that was necessary for your growth.  Now its over.  Let Go.

First ask yourself what is showing up?

Then ask yourself what lesson did it bring you?

Then ask if you have learned the lesson and can you apply it to the current situation?

I have a client who had a new relationship appear only to revel that he had not let go of his emotions he still had for his former lover (love and anger).  This was apparent when he realized he wasn’t able to move forward with the new one until he cut cords and let go of all attachment to his past.  What did he learn from it and how could he apply it to the new one that was in front of him.

The new one required him to step out of old behaviors that no longer supported their new connection.  He needed to implement new skills he had learned but wasn’t so skilled at.  It wasn’t that he didn’t want to, it was just uncomfortable because it wasn’t his typical behavior.  He was stepping out of an old habit and embracing the new with an open heart.  He knew expressing himself, his needs and being open to receiving was necessary and he had to start doing just that to make the new work.  Again, as easy as it sounds, new habits are not easy, even good ones.  We are all being given healthier experiences and it’s up to each of us to let go and embrace what is showing up.  If you weren’t ready for success it wouldn’t be showing up.  Let go of the past so you can see your future.

This example can be applied to any experience with family, lovers, or work.  What is appearing in your life to let go of, so you can move forward?

Whatever it is, Let Go and start walking in the direction of what you do want.  Our manifesting abilities are at an all-time high right now and it’s imperative that you focus only on what you want.  You learned the new skills needed to succeed, it’s a matter of trusting yourself.  Trusting you deserve to live the life you desire and not to be intimidated by new and possibly uncomfortable experiences.   After a few tries, you will realize that the old did teach you how to be stronger and you will be grateful that you let go of past behavior no longer supporting you.  Now you can embark on a new healthier journey.  God, spirit, universe only brings what you are ready for and by letting go of old experiences, it’s telling the universe you’re ready to live your dreams instead.

Brightest Blessings,

Daune