Judgement

Take responsibly for your own thoughts and actions.
Stop judging others.
Judgement is your weakness being revealed not theirs.

So often I hear someone complaining about another person. Describing all the things they dislike and what they should do to change. They are very disturbed by the others actions, yet the other person never changes, no matter how often they are being instructed to change.

The thing is the other person doesn’t change because the issue at hand isn’t an immediate concern to them. The truth is we attract people into our lives to mirror our gifts and insecurities. So little do we realize the actions of others that disturb us are… “BINGO” …our own challenges and insecurities staring back at us.

It’s just difficult to self reflect on our own weaknesses, it makes us feel as if we haven’t grown. When in reality, we experience the greatest growth when we address our weak spots. People appearing in your life to annoy you is natures way of helping you address your weak spots.

So the next time someone is irritating you, and this person is continually showing up in your life, take a deep breath and ask yourself….does their “lack of commitment, health, joy,etc…” mirror me in any way? Then start working on yourself there.

Once you begin to change and heal, those around you will either disappear or do the same. Mirroring your new skills.

Brightest Blessings,
Daune