Do Nothing

As a personal development coach I am often asked for solutions to challengeing situations. It’s often a surprise when my suggestion is to do nothing.

It’s not as if I am suggesting, do nothing ever, just not at this given moment in time. Often when you are faced with a challenge and every angle of the experience looks like a brick wall with no way to overcome it. This is the universe giving you the opportunity to surrender, step back and let the situation further develop to a place you can make a healthy solution.

How often do you beat your head against the wall assessing your situation wondering what you could do to make it better, or what you could have done to have avoided it. The simple truth of challenging situations is that we draw them to us to for a lesson.

Often we are ready for the lesson and want to make a better choice so it can be washed away. But sometiimes the lesson is patience. Letting events and opportunities evolve so the answer you are searching for can appear.

It’s similar to procrastination, but in a good way, like putting something off to the point that you dont have a choice and the only answer you need suddenly appears. So the next time you are feeling like there is no obvious answer to make a situation better, the answer is … Not to do anything! When the time is right, you will get the answer very clear. Be patient and trust the lesson.

with Love,
Daune